I will answer your questions Jr....but first answer my one:

As you state that you are a father to several children...that you love dearly...answer this:

Your house is burning down. You have a choice...you can save yourself but all your family will perish or you can save your children and your wife, ALL of them-- but you will have to go thru the fire to get them out and you end up dying...which do you chose? Do you die for your loved ones, or do your loved ones die for you?

That is a tough question to answer isn't it?